How to Spice Up Your Sex Life and Save Your Relationship

The Question:

My partner and I have been together for 2 years now and we have been living together for about 4 months. Now that we are living together I feel that our relationship has changed. We hardly ever have sex, probably once a month is about all we manage to achieve.

I love sex and I’m sure that my partner does too, but for some reason we just can’t seem to make an effort to do the wild thing – one of us or both are always tired and sometimes it feels like we’re losing sexual compatibility; now it seems like I’ve had more passion in the past with other men or in the beginning of our relationship.

We do love each other and we’ve been through a lot together but I feel that our relationship is changing and I don’t know what to do about it.

We are becoming more like best friends everyday and I’m scared that the passion is fading. His idea of seduction and mine are totally different – he thinks ‘Let’s have sex?’ is an acceptable phrase into seducing a woman into hot sex, where as I would rather be pinned up against a wall without a word being said and so on…

When we weren’t living together our relationship was great; we did struggle a bit in the sex department but 3 times a week compared to once a month was a vast improvement.

Any advice you have considering this situation would be greatly appreciated. I don’t think I want to lose my relationship but I don’t know if I have the will power to save it – I don’t know what to do.

The Answer:

You might be surprised to learn that almost all long term relationships go through this ‘phase’ where everyone seems to get a little lazy. From my experience, it seems to happen somewhere between 18 months and 3 years into the relationship.

Here are some ideas that will help you make the best decision for you.

Does he know how you feel?

Open and honest communication is the most important component of any relationship.

Talk about it! Yes, with him, not with your girlfriends, not with anyone else. It’s absolutely amazing how many lovers simply don’t communicate openly and honestly with one another.

So many guys chat about their love live with their buddies, often as a way of bragging and showing off. And then they ask their guy friends if this or that sex idea would be ok. This is a bad idea for guys and girls. If you’re trying to figure out what sexual experiences to try out, talk with your lover not your buddies.

So, does he know that you crave hot spontaneous sex, or that you get excited by playing a little rough? Guess what, he might like that too! Or he might not, but you’ll never know if you don’t explore this topic together. And by the way, you’ll have a lot of fun and get a lot closer in the process.

Don’t hurt anyone’s feelings and check your ego at the door

It’s a strange thing, but sex partners often get their feelings hurt when one of them suggests trying something new, or doing something a little differently.

Get over it! The point of sex and intimacy is to enjoy each other and be happy together! Unless of course you’re focused solely on making babies – but that’s not the topic of this article…

Getting comfortable and killing your relationship

Complacency, also known as “getting comfortable” is the death knell of so many relationships, it may as well be a full blown epidemic. So many couples strive to “get comfortable”. What that means is they stop trying. And guess what… you stop trying, and your relationship dies. It’s that simple. The excitement and attraction dies, and your relationships becomes a project that you’re always fixing up. That’s no fun.

So how can you add that spice and excitement back into your relationship so that you’re not just lusting after those hot bodies at the gym?

Seduction as a game for lovers – the chase begins anew

The thrill of seduction doesn’t end when you get into a relationship. Why give up such a wonderful thing, even if you could?

Admit it, we enjoy the chase. I know I do and I’m at peace with it. And if you’re not chasing your lover, you’ll end up chasing someone else. We’re just wired that way. So let’s just accept that fact and use it to our advantage.

When was the last time you tried to seduce your partner? No, I’m not talking about coming home and saying “hey, let’s go have sex”. Blah! Boring!

I mean dressing up to look your best, wearing something sexy and feeling sexy.

Some of the best and most exciting sex is spontaneous sex, when you’re so wrapped up in the heat of the moment that you just can’t stop from ripping each other’s clothes off! Now that’s excitement. And doesn’t it sound more fun than “hey, let’s go have sex”?

Schedule hot sex dates

You go through the trouble of scheduling lunch and dinner appointments with just about everyone in your life. How about paying at least that much attention to your lover? Make time for that really steamy hot date, and plan accordingly. That way you’ll both be anticipating it all day, or all week.

Make a sex date box

Here’s a neat idea. Get together with your lover and each of you jot down a steamy date idea on a piece of paper and agree that each time you go on a hot steamy date, you’ll pick a card from your special sex date box.

Watch some erotic movies – together

Basic Instinct, Wild Orchid, 9 and 1/2 Weeks – it doesn’t have to be Playboy Porn, just something that gets you excited – trust me – he’ll get excited simply by you being excited.

Go out and buy some hot lingerie – together

What could be more exciting than shopping for hot lingerie together? By the time you’re done, you’ll be well in the mood for a hot sex date.

How about going to an adult toy store – together?

Maybe go visit an adult toy store together. Even if you don’t buy anything, you’re sure to have a lot of fun checking out all the merchandise.

Mix it up with some new sexual adventures

Doing the same old thing over and over again is bound to get boring. You wouldn’t watch the same TV show for the rest of your life, would you?

Try something different. Whether you’re up for a threesome or interested in the wild latex world of BDSM, the same idea applies.

Be open to new experiences. Venture out and keep it exciting.

In summary

Talk with your partner about sex. Really, make a date to sit down and go over it. Then resolve to always talk about it form then on.
Check your ego at the door. If your partner makes sex suggestions and you get defensive, then you’re missing the point completely. Get over it and put your partner first. You’ll be glad you did.
Don’t strive to get “comfortable” in a relationship. If you’re there, break out of it before you doom your relationship for good.
Bring the excitement of seduction and the chase back into your relationship – fast.
Actually schedule some hot sex dates with your partner. Really.
Keep it exciting with some new sexual adventures. Try new things. Open your mind and explore the entire world of sex possibilities.

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Spice Up Your Marriage With These Sizzlin’ Hot Sex Tips That Will Make You Scream Tonight!

Discover how to spice up your marriage with these simple sizzling sex tips that will improve emotional and sexual intimacy with your husband. It’s like having an affair – but you won’t need to save your marriage afterward!

1. Enjoy a Sexy Shower Together. Showering with your spouse can be an erotic experience. Enjoy a sensual ritual of taking a shower together. Wash his back, let him shampoo your hair and stroke conditioner in it as you fellate him, and then take it to the bedroom where you can both towel off.

Sexy shower gifts are also available for you both to indulge in, making your erotic experiences together even wetter and wilder than you’d have ever thought was possible.

2. Shop for Adult Sex Toys Together. Shopping for adult sex toys together ups the ante in your love life because you’re in an environment devoted to improving your pleasure and lovemaking experiences. Pick up the crazy things, and choose something that can potentially send your orgasms full throttle as you connect.

3. Spank His Naughty Behind. Spanking is a light pathway into the exploration of BDSM or dominance and submission style erotic activity. Kinky and creative ways to insert spanking into your play are as schoolmaster and naughty student as you roleplay with one another.

If you really want to get naughty with it, a hot and sexy dominatrix costume, and some whips and crops are also available for you to play with. Check out these hot and sexy outfits and ideas that can bring out the dark side in your marriage.

4. Invite Spontaneity in Your Marriage. Spontaneity is the art of being impulsive and creative with one another as you make love. Get inspired to make love on the side of the highway, kiss him passionately in a dressing room while you’re out shopping together, or touching passionately in the car, elevator, backyard… wherever you’re inspired to touch each other.

5. Indulge in Sensuous Full Body Massages. Giving each other a sexy full body massage will definitely help you warm up your sex life. Using a hot wax candle can sting in the sexiest way and still provide a soothing, stimulating sensation that can increase the passion factor in your foreplay experience.

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Sexy and Romantic Valentine’s Day Gift Ideas for Men and Women

Now Christmas is over – that time of year when we spend our time and money on our family and friends. Valentine’s Day is quickly approaching – the time of year to spend time and money on yourself and your lover.

Sexy lingerie is a Valentine’s Day gift that pleases both of you. What makes lingerie such a sought after and much-given Valentine’s Day gift – more treasured than chocolates, flowers, stuffed animals and even jewelry? Lingerie says, “I love you and I want you.” It says, “You are beautiful and deserve to wear beautiful things. I think you are desirable.”

Sexy clothing is not THE only Valentines Day gift you should give her. If your lover is a chocolate fiend then you better get her some fancy chocolates too – and flowers are never a waste, but opt for two or three smaller boquets around the room instead of one big overbearing grouping. Choose different types of flowers – daisies, wild flowers, carnations – with maybe one rose tied with a ribbon. The rose will be romantic and the hardier flowers will last longer. Think about adding a slim book of erotic stories, some massage oil, adult toys or a special piece of jewelry with an encrypted romantic inscription.

Take the time to write a note to tell her or him exactly what it is about your relationship that turns you on. Don’t be afraid to get a little naughty – it will be remembered for many years to come.

From a practical standpoint, it can be hard for guys to know what kind of lingerie to choose or what size to buy. If you make a purchase at a lingerie store the clerks can often help by showing you what is popular or suggesting lines in your price range. They may even have size guides to help, but try to sneak into your gal’s dresser beforehand and check out the size on something similar to what you want to buy.

A short internet search for “Lingerie Shopping Tips” can also give you many pointers and ideas. If all else fails, a gift certificate for a shopping trip date to Victoria Secret can help you make your own decision for her birthday – or anniversary – or Christmas. You get the idea.

Many lingerie stores on the web have people qualified to help too. Try using the customer service or “contact us” buttons on a lingerie website. Usually an honest description of your gal with size ranges or measurements can help the sales person narrow down the selection for you. Most people in the lingerie business are very accustomed to helping men and women pick just the right sexy lingerie outfit from the hundreds of thousands available.

Whatever you decide to do, make it personal. Take time to think about your girl or guy and what romantic times you have had in the past or have discussed as fantasies. You do not have to spend a lot of money to make the day unforgettable. The thought that you put into doing something unique and loving is much more important than the price tag.

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Sexy Lingerie – Why Should We Buy It?

In the current financial climate why should we spend our money on luxuries like Sexy Lingerie? True we are experiencing difficult times at the moment, but I see this as all the more reason why we need to feel good and look good. Arguments can be forgotten and forgiven in the bedroom, so treating your loved one to something sexy that you can both benefit from is indeed a good idea. Let’s face it, everyone likes to be given gifts, and if the gift happens to be some sexy lingerie then you can enjoy the gift together and for the moment at least forget any financial difficulties you may be experiencing. It has been known for a long time that shopping therapy is good for you (maybe not financially but definitely mentally). So put a smile on your partners face with a gift of some sexy lingerie.

If you are short of ideas as to what your other half may like, a super place for ideas is any one of the many internet lingerie stores you can find on the World Wide Web. Here you will find sexy and erotic lingerie as well as a selection of adult toys that will further enhance your sexy evening of fun. If you are feeling adventurous and maybe a bit brave, then why not try out some tie and tease or bondage products after all, nothing ventured nothing gained. These can be great fun and you could find yourself enjoying a whole new side to your sex life. Lovemaking can become stale and uninteresting over time so adding to your sexy lingerie is a great way to liven things up in the bedroom. Why not try some sexy costumes and enter into a bit of roll play with your partner?

Many men are boob lovers, so why not show off your biggest assets and make a purchase of some open cup lingerie? Open breast teddies and open cup bodystockings are an extremely erotic way of spicing up your sex life. A good sexy lingerie web site should contain a wide selection of babydolls, corsets, teddies, stockings and suspenders and all the erotic underwear that go with a sexy shopping experience.

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New Adult Romance Ideas To Spark That Passion

If you are looking for a new way to tease your lover in a romantic way, it might be a good time to have a romantic night in. Brainstorming about adult romance ideas can be tough, but it also can be rewarding. Not able to come up with any romantic night ideas, or any bedroom romance possibilities? Try out some of the following new adult romance ideas to help bring passion into your life.

Drop some candies in a trail leading to the bedroom, with a note attached mentioning a super sweet treat waiting at the end of the candy trail. Add a little bit of whipped cream, some cherries, and you will have a romantic adult dessert that your lover will adore.

If you haven’t already, go on a shopping spree at a sex shop, and try out your new toys once you arrive at back at your home. Indulge in everything from sexy outfits, to videos, to new handbooks full of sex tips, to more unconventional and kinky toys.

For wild couples, why not attend a nudist event? The laid back atmosphere, along with the sight of your lover’s naked body all day long is sure to please you. For the most romantic atmospheres, make an effort to look for secluded beaches, deserts, and forests near you.

Did you know that it is scientifically proven that the smell of a partner’s sweat will turn you on? Join a gym for the healthiest kind of foreplay around. This might not sound like an adult romance idea, but after watching your beloved work out, you’ll beg to differ.

One longtime favorite adult romance idea of many couples is to play dress up for an exciting sexual escapade. Buy a sexy costume, and become your partner’s fantasy tonight!

Ever wonder what it feels like to be a model? Spice up your bedroom romance by having your own personal photo shoot. Take turns with your partner taking erotic photos of each other, and then admire them later.

The Japanese Yakuza came up with an erotic way to spice up a sushi dinner – by eating it off a beautiful woman. This is a great way to enjoy your lover’s beautiful body.

Overall, the key to a great adult romance idea is to combine fantasy with reality. Adding a twist to the daily humdrum is all you need to do in order to have a romantic night you won’t soon forget.

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Beyond Your Small Business Ideas

People expect Quick results and immediate rewards when they realize their small business ideas. When the first excitement of having their own small business fade off, the vast majority say to themselves that it’s not paying off as they expected. They give up.

To be able to reach your goal of success, you can’t let the initial workload and obstacles stop you. As all entrepreneurs at start, you will face the situation of having a negative income, you’ll spend more money than you earn.

When hit by this reality, most people drops out of the race. Whit the tail between their legs, they go back to their previous job.

The main reason of this situation is that there is a general misconception ; “It’s easy to convert small business ideas into a real small business”. “It’s easy to maintain the new business”. However, if you’re able to look beyond humps and bumps, your business will prosper and you can reap the rewards.

The conception that it’s a piece of cake to turn small business ideas into a thriving small business, have it’s home in fairytale books. To start and maintain a business will take both your time and some of your money.

Any successful small business entrepreneur will tell testify that at the start, they spent countless of hours in front of the computer, planing and executing their business ideas. They will tell you that it’s only after the first hard part is done, the work of a small business entrepreneur will become easy.

An established small business owner can make money sleeping or by sending out a few emails, those amazing benefits comes from the initial efforts and time spent on the business.

If it’s not easy to make small business ideas a reality, how come people with no knowledge, without experience, can succeed? Well, it’s not easy, but it’s simple. The key to small business success is simplicity.

To start a successful small business is simple, it’s simple in the terms of having uncomplicated directions to follow. That’s how it’s done, people without prior knowledge or experience are able to create wealth. It’s necessary to find a simple and proved system to follow to the letter.

The hope of your small business ideas succeeding, is to be found in your ability to follow the simple system and mirror its success. You will never be successful if you sit back and wait for the success to hit you in your forehead. You can’t expect someone else to do it for you.

Forget the the theory of an easy small business, embrace the simple nature of success. Once you gain momentum, your progress will never stop.

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Small Business Ideas – A Whole Lot to Choose From

Small business ideas are a necessity for people who want to supplement their regular incomes with some extra cash to ascertain financial freedom in the future. Anyone, who wants to start a small business with an intention of themselves or their spouse running it are welcome to browse through a lot of ideas available across the internet.

Not only do these small business ideas reinforce the idea that extra money can be made but can be started off with the minimum or no leg work at all. If the chosen idea is an online one, you would probably need no investment at all. Browse through the many ideas available online and make your decision today.

The following are a few ideas:

a. Online data entry: Data entry requires minimal skills and as far as a person can read and write and has a flair for the keyboard, this could be the best of the small business ideas. As a data entry specialist you could be entering corporate data or putting in products into an eCommerce website. This work is highly in demand and well paying too.

b. Forms and surveys: A little more daunting than the data entry, this requires certain knowledge. Filling up forms and surveys pays very well and all one needs to do is to fill up market survey forms and surveys that will be used by companies to formulate their selling strategies.

c. Writing: If one is good at language and can handle English well, this could be one of the most well paid business ideas. Writing research papers, articles and web content is highly in demand today and pays well.

d. Programming: This is the most well-paid of the small business ideas and it requires a lot of technical knowledge. Programmers are a rare creed and skills vary from one person to another. Depending on skills, finding work online is not a very big deal for any programmer. Since this is a highly specialized skill, it is also paid for handsomely.

e. Internet Marketing: This is another of the small business ideas that works wonders for many small businesses across the world. Any website that looks to make money needs to market itself and thus needs customized attention. This is one of the small business ideas that need highly specialized skills and a little workforce to succeed. The returns are handsome and the work is very satisfying.

With more and more websites coming up every day and technology changing leaves almost every few weeks, small business ideas related to the internet are evolving very quickly. The faster you put your foot into the door, the greater the chances of success.

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Building Your Business With Small Business Ideas

With the right small business ideas, you can turn a simple idea into real profits. An at-home business is the dream of many people, but you need a strong beginning if you want to see your business succeed. Luckily, you can use the experiences and tips of others to help you along the way.

What to Avoid

Using small business ideas to learn more about starting your own home-based, local, or online shop can be challenging. There are many offers that simply won’t work, despite the many testimonials that you can earn money. For example, pyramid schemes were once considered legitimate but quickly turned out to be a fraud. All of the ways that really can help you earn money will include some effort on your part. Owning and running any profitable business takes time and effort, so don’t try to take the easy way out or you may end up with nothing to show for your investment.

Research the many small business ideas that you come across and want to use for your own home-based, local or online business. Try to imagine implementing the ideas that you read about before investing your time, which is valuable, or money into them. Some ideas, such as building a website for your business, can easily help you make more money and don’t involve a lot of time. Others, such as expanding your local business, can take many years to develop.

Listen to Experts

Small business ideas from people with experience are the best way that you can earn more money with your small business. Going from a small business with a home base to a local or online business can definitely be challenging, so you need to use these ideas to assist you in building and expanding your business over time. Your business will change over time and your need for new ideas will grow. Changing your business to meet customer demand and growing with your community is one of the most rewarding aspects of owning a business.

Small business ideas can help you make these changes gracefully. You can use ideas to find out where your profits should be spent or saved, and how to meet customer demands successfully over time. No matter what your niche is or how many customers you have, you can use ideas from the experts to meet the ever-changing needs of your small business. Your local chamber of Commerce is a great place to find these experts.

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Sears Promo Codes – What Can I Buy With Them?

A lot of people are looking for ways they can save money. Whether they are buying food, clothing, household items, and necessities, it is the innate nature of an individual to look for a discount. If they cannot find a discount, they will look for a cheaper option. This though, does not apply with Sears promo codes.

The beauty about having a code is that you can get to save some items on your shopping venture. Since you have gotten a promo code for Sears, you can make use of the discount only with the brand. But you should not worry on what you can use it with as Sears has a complete line of everything that you can possibly need or want. The only thing they lack is food.

You can use your promo code if you will buy appliances, automotive/tires, beauty, baby, bed, bath, home, books, clothing, electrical gadgets, gifts, fitness, sports, health, jewelry, and a lot of other products. With Sears, you can easily have choose what you want to buy as they have such an extensive array of available products that you can choose from. You can even buy gifts for your friends.

The list of items that you can buy with your Sears promo codes seems to be endless. Your needed items can simply be bought at Sears. Because of this, you do not need to go to another retail store so you can complete what’s on your list. Truly, this fact alone can already save you some money on transportation costs that you would have otherwise needed to spend.

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Top Brand Professional Automotive Tools Reviewed – Know Your Budget

The tool market is well serviced in terms of brands, design, quality and price. The key consideration is to evaluate your needs. For example, it is pointless buying a laptop capable driving sophisticated 3G games when really all that is required from the unit is basic desktop and internet work. This kind of example also applies to buying tools. For instance, why waste one’s budget on buying the most expensive tools when their application is for occasional hobby type tasks.

Lets start with an overview comparison. It is widely agreed that the best quality and designed tools are manufactured by the Snap-on company. This brand of tools is designed for the professional market. No tool brand is perfect and infallible to failure. However, the Snap-on lifetime warranty means that when a tool breaks, it is replaced or repaired by the service representatives. Snap-on tools can be bought from their distribution trucks and vans that visit automotive workshops. Alternatively, their online catalog allows purchasing via the internet. Second-hand and recycled Snap-on tools are also eagerly traded through websites like eBay and eBay Partner sites.

As noted above, Snap-on automotive tools are at the upper price range. However, there is no shortage of professional grade tool brands at price points below that of the Snap-on brand. For example the brands: Matco, MAC and Cornwell are equally respected in the professional automotive sector. Matco, MAC and Cornwell off a range of professional tools that deliver quality and reliability while carrying sound lifetime warranties and professional after sales service. And are less expensive than the Snap-on brand for the budget minded professional automotive technician. The availability of these brands for sale is similar to Snap-on tools. Trucks visit and distribute tools at automotive workshops. Also, online catalogs and auction type websites offer buy opportunities.

For those budget sensitive buyers, the next set of tool brands is SK and Craftsman. The manufacturing quality of these brands meet USA standards and carry similar lifetime warranties like those brands mentioned above. So, for the semi-professional or hobbyist application these tool brands are an ideal choice. Some may argue that the SK brand, although not as popular, is a little superior to the Craftsman brand. But this opinion is subjective. Craftsmanship and SK brand tools are a more accessible to the buying market. For example, Craftsmanship brand tools are stocked at Sears stores, while the SK brand is found in automotive parts stores and outlets.

In summary, if price is no restraint, then tools from the Snap-on range are considered to be the best quality. Where quality and service is still a priority, then brands such as: matco, MAC and Cornwell offer offer quality profession lines of tools as less expensive price points. Finally, the brands SK and Craftsmanship serve the semi-professional market with tools that are not subject to the high demands of daily professional usage. The advice for any buyer is assess the task application of the tool, and allocate your budget to buy the right tool for the right job.

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